The way people think is different and the way I think is different. Isn’t so? All it depends on the perspective of things other people consider or I consider being a human while looking at different situations. Insecurities are such things that have ruin many people’s lives today, that is needed to be taken care of or that is being based on judgments. The self doubt needed to be cleared. People should also understand the importance of their own perspectives and insecurities are not the final option. Mostly people with insecurities can have good sense of humor or most driven person but they will never consider themselves in that way. This is why insecurities are not valued but needed to be valued the most.
Earlier in the 90s era, as compared to men, many of the restrictions were imposed on women which hinders only from the perspective of others whereas some who don’t let any of the insecurities put on them are strong enough and had achieved a lot in their life. Today, when we talk about equality, mostly we can found equality between men and women but some still needed to accept the theory or importance of equality. People are insecure about their looks, talent, lack of communication skills, etc. They fear for judgments and that gives insecurities. People with no fear of any judgments or believing themselves are living a good quality of life with happiness. The judging nature of people hinders a person’s life, their growth, or left them with dealing with harder situations and so on. This is what insecurity is all about.
Some interesting facts about insecure people:
- Avoid meeting new people
- Fear of judgment
- Not considering themselves better as compared to others
- Not being true to themselves
- For them, everything is just like nothing
This just can ruin people’s lives but also make them doubt in themselves. The reason is not just because people are being judgmental towards your way of living but also by letting those people judge you for your way of living. As if their beliefs make sense in your life. The motive of telling these facts is that people should start believing in themselves. This will help in overcoming self-doubt and becoming strong with self-confidence in life or having a good quality of living a human being’s life.
In the end, no one is doomed to fail. Even if you fail then learn from it. Make it better for next time. There is always a second chance or sometimes more. Improve the quality of life not just by judging the people or letting their judgments affect your quality of life. Don’t just look for negativities either look for positivity or the best. Live in reality rather than living in imaginary situations. Also, try to spend time with your family and friends or those who care for you. This is the beauty of life.
” Wanting a positive experience is a negative experience; accepting a negative experience is a positive experience.”- Alan Watts